Monday, June 7th, 2010
Not too long ago I was considering how hectic life is. Because we are so preoccupied with our day to day minutiae , I realized thatsometimes we don’t take time to have fun on our journey . I once read that there can be no joyous ending to a bad excursion .
More often than not you will have a better time if you take your time . Don’t be so eager to get to your destination but alternatively have fun along the way .
When it comes to a relationship, this is particularly true. The daily responsibilities of working a full time job , raising kids and a whole host of other things can take our attention away from taking care of the one you love .
There are times when I just want to bury my head in the sand and forget about it all . So is this the right answer ?
Part of the answer lies with how do you want your love one or special partner to feel about you and to treat you?
So how do you want them to feel about you anyway? For most people the answer is pretty obvious. Almost everybody wants to be wanted .
The funny thing is , it doesn’t happen all by itself . In fact some might even suggest that it takes work . Maybe you need to do something special for them to help them appreciate you and realize how much they love you.
It’s the old saying that relationships are a two way street . Or to put it differently , you can’t take without giving and expect your partner to be happy with the arrangement . You need to try first if you expect them to give some effort back . One of you has to go first , why not be the one to take the lead?
Just like all things in this world . You reap what you sow.
If you want to make your boyfriend happy , do something special for him to let him know you care . Stop sweating the small things Be sure to wear some sexy lingerie unexpectedly when you are alone at home . Show him how much he means to you.
If you’ve got a girlfreind that you want more romance from , you probably need to try harder yourself . Help her do the laundry . Bring her some flowers . Go out and get her some lingerie for the bedroom . Take her out to dinner . Express your desire for her .
Don’t forget to spend some time and effort to let your mate know that you care about them and that they are special to you . What you recieve in return is certain to be much more than the small amount of work that you had to do .
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Monday, February 8th, 2010
I have been seeing this guy on and off for a couple of months. We took a break because he said he didn’t want to be serious with me because he’s moving and he slept with another girl. I slept with my ex because I felt regected-I know not a mature reaction. We got back together, but the fact that he told me he had wanted to sleep around is driving me me nuts. He said he is not sleeping around anymore, but now I can’t trust him. I know he talks to a lot of random girls online. I saw a comment on his myspace from another girl that I don’t know. It said happy humpday with a pix of a sexy girl. I asked him if he was sleeping with her. He says I’m too jealous and have no right to ask those questions, but I say I have every right to ask that question. Who is right?
And please don’t say I shouldn’t have slept with my ex because I already know that was a mistake.
ok so you were not serious with him in the beginning – he was honest enough to let you know the deal when he wanted to take a break… do you have any idea how many guys would
screw around behind your back & not even care. you obviously both made decisions that you’ll have to deal with now that you’re back together. define your relationship this time so it’s not an on & off thing. don’t spy on him & accuse him if you have no real proof… or you’ll end up pushing him to do the thing you’re accusing him of.
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Thursday, January 21st, 2010
This uplifting author, Joanie Winberg, better known as the Happy Wednesday Lady, is feeling extremely energized about spreading the word of Happy Wednesday. The passionate writer plans on making Wednesday a Power Day and banishing the dreaded middle of the week’s “hump day” reputation forever. And she can do it too. Wouldn’t it be awesome if everyone felt that way about Wednesdays? Think about it, rather than only existing for the weekends, you could feel better each and every day of the week.
Can you see how much more you would accomplish? How many more good days you would have? And finally, what a difference this could make not only in your life, but all those around you.
Winberg’s 10 Power Tips offer just what you do to do it. Here are just a few:
1.Start your day with an inspirational tip. Journal what you are going to do differently to make today a better day. Winberg has the perfect Journal and Inspirational CD Set to assist you at
http://www.HappyWednesday.com.
2.Find your favorite inspirational quote and make it a part of your day.
3.In the morning, write down three things you are grateful for.
4.Look for the good. Focus on what is going right in a situation versus what is wrong or not working.
5.Do an act of kindness. Now consider, how does this make you feel? Can you imagine the difference if everyone did even one act of kindness each and every Wednesday?
6.Forgive someone and make amends with a relationship gone sour. How good would that feel? You then have brand new relationships and renewed friendships.
7.Call someone you haven’t talked to in a long time to say hello. Tell them you’ve been thinking of them.
8.Call or e-mail a member of your family and tell them how much you appreciate them or how much you appreciate having them in your life.
9.Do one good thing for yourself. Something you normally wouldn’t do.
10.Have some fun. Make Wednesday night family fun night. Yes, you still can get the kids to bed on time for school. But devote one hour to something fun for you and your family.
Committing yourself to working on your Wednesday attitude keeps you in high spirits every day of the week. And if you need a little help in making that happen, Winberg provides her Happy wednesday Broadcast, 90 second midweek “BOOST” to help. Winberg’s commitment is to help make everyone’s daily joy contagious and bringing the feeling of gratitude into an individual’s life. It provides inspirational quotes and tips to help listeners kick off their days with motivation and laughter.
Linda Hollander, the Wealthy Bag Lady, author and founder of the Women’s Small Business Expo, is just one of the many making the Wednesday change. Hollander wrote, “I look forward to my Happy Wednesday midweek boost every week, and I can’t wait to hear what gems of wisdom Joanie will impart to me. Watch out world, the Happy Wednesday Lady will inspire you to live your passionate life.”
And for those who regularly tune into the radio for inspiration, Winberg brings her message to radio stations across the nation in an effort to broaden the Power Day scope and is currently looking for more stations interested in airing her Happy Wednesday Broadcast.
Rediscover your true magnificence each and every day by changing just one day of your week-Wednesday. Make it a Power Day and feel the difference.
Joanie Winberg
http://www.articlesbase.com/motivational-articles/make-wednesdays-a-power-day-banish-hump-day-forever-with-these-tips-69081.html
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